The first thing to do is to figure out if you're ready to make a change. You won't get very far if you just say you want to change but aren't ready to do it all the way.
Really think about this and make yourself ready to believe in what you need to do to succeed. This is not going to be easy at first, but once you start working on a change everything will fall into place. Think of the change you want to make and prepare to take it on with everything that you have.
Your goals should be realistic. Even if it's just a short term goal, you shouldn't think that you're going to make it rich just by buying a lottery ticket or something. Goals need to be concrete and should be able to be reached within a reasonable amount of time. Let's say that your goal is becoming a better chef. You should start with learning a new recipe every day. You shouldn't make your goal to be the best chef in the world by just reading about a couple of recipes.
Figure out a positive approach that you can take to reach your goals. If you want to quit smoking, it would probably be a bad idea to think that you can sneak a cigarette in every once in a while. You have to be committed and get the tools together to do something. If you're quitting smoking you'd want to do something like get on the patch and throw away all of your smoking paraphernalia.
Identify the things that are standing in the way of you reaching some of your goals. By doing this you'll be able to either conquer those obstacles, or just avoid them the best you can. If you're trying to get a new house one of your obstacles may be getting enough money together for a house. The best way to do this would be to start putting money back in a separate bank account that you avoid touching for a while.
Find books and things like articles that go over self help topics. Every day there are people blogging about self help and books are being written about the topic as well. Get online to seek out these things, or you can simply visit your local library or book store. Surround yourself with things that have to do with self help so that you're able to only think about bettering yourself.
Change won't be something that is easy, but you can do it. If you just persevere through the tough times you will be in a good position to change. Take it day by day and keep this article in mind and you should have no problem changing.
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